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‘Tis the season of giving and I’m interested in knowing what gifts you’ve given yourself. Not the kind you buy.  I’m thinking kind of more like…..homegrown.

Like bravery, for example. This year, did you step out of your comfort zone in ways you’ve never done before? Or maybe persistence.   Do you find that now you just keep going when things are rough and not even think about giving up?

Perhaps you gave yourself the gift of focus  -  zeroing in on what’s really important to you  – and letting the rest go? Or how about patience? The calmness that comes when you accept that your timeline isn’t everyone else’s is a powerful gift.

Did you give yourself joy?  Read more...

What do you do when someone asks for help getting a job in your organization? Most people want to help. On the other hand, helping is risky. How do you help someone get a job but protect your own hard-earned political capital?
 
A friend of mine asked me this after her efforts to help a former colleague monumentally backfired. A VP who had been laid off from her previous company contacted her about an open position in her current firm. My friend’s actions to help him turned into a political disaster for her when she passed his resume on to her boss –and her boss was applying for the same position.

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As in Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad JOB SEARCH Days.

As in actually checking to see if email is down because apparently no one cares enough to even send you spam Days.  Or making sure your phone is working because you can’t remember the last time it rang Days.  Or having absolutely run out of ideas and not knowing what to do next Days. 

From the kid perspective,  Alexander’s day in Judith Viorst’s children’s book  Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day would seem to have lived up to its name. Gum in your hair? Terrible. Lima beans for dinner? Horrible. 

From the adult perspective, Very Bad JOB SEARCH Days are much, much worse than lima beans. And I say that as someone who has deep, personal experience with both.   Read more...